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Wednesday, January 18, 2012

thiz is the girl who stole my heart


with this poz mhh......... jane
Roses are red,
Violets are corney,
When i think of you
Ohh baby i get horney,
Eat me,
Beat me,
Bite me,
Blow me,
Suck me,
Fuck me,
Very slowly,
if you kiss me,
dont be sassy,
Use your tongue
and make it nasty!!!!

Saturday, January 14, 2012

The Rose in the Deeps of his Heart

The Rose in the Deeps of his Heart
by moses marick

All things uncomely and broken, 
all things worn-out and old, 
The cry of a child by the roadway, 
the creak of a lumbering cart, 

The heavy steps of the ploughman, 
splashing the wintry mould, 
Are wronging your image that blossoms 
a rose in the deeps of my heart. 

The wrong of unshapely things 
is a wrong too great to be told; 
I hunger to build them anew 
and sit on a green knoll apart, 

With the earth and the sky and the water, 
remade, like a casket of gold 
For my dreams of your image that blossoms 
a rose in the deeps of my heart.

Monday, November 21, 2011

TANGA, THE CRADLE CITY OF ROMANCE?

WELL COME HERE AN U WILL NEVER BE DISAAPOINTED BUDDIES

The economic case for polygamy, can we refers this to Tanzania?

I Do, I Do, I Do, I Do

i dont think i can be one of them, je unaweza
 kujua kipi ndani yangu?

After more than a decade of war between separatist rebels and the Russian army, there are not many marriageable men to go around in Chechnya. So, acting Prime Minister Ramzan Kadyrov, probably not a feminist, proposed a radical step: "Each man who can provide for four wives should do it."
Polygyny (having more than one wife, as opposed to polygamy, which is having more than one spouse) is admissible under Islamic law but not Russian law, so Kadyrov is unlikely to make much progress with his proposal. But what difference would such a law make? It's natural to assume that polygyny is bad for women, partly because most of us would rather have our spouse to ourselves, and partly because we look at a place like Saudi Arabia, where polygyny is not uncommon, and note that women aren't even allowed to drive.
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I'm not quite so convinced. A lot of the knee-jerk reactions against polygyny are from people who can't add up. In a society with equal numbers of men and women, each man with four wives gives women the additional pick of three men—the poor saps whose potential wives decided they'd prefer one-quarter of a billionaire instead. In the Sahel region of Africa, half of all women live in polygynous households. The other half have a good choice of men and a lot more bargaining power.
It's hardly surprising that in most polygynous societies, the bride's family gets large payments in exchange for her hand in marriage. If polygyny combined with women's rights, I bet we'd see more promises to wash the dishes. Not everybody would have to share a husband, but I can think of some who might prefer half of Orlando Bloom to all of Tim Harford—including my wife.
In a society such as Chechnya, where there is a shortage of young men, we would expect the reverse effect: Men get to pick and choose, playing the field, perhaps not bothering to get married at all. We don't have good data on Chechnya, but we have excellent information about an unexpected parallel.
A little over one in 100 American men are in prison—but there are several states where one in five young black men are behind bars. Since most women marry men of a similar age, and of the same race and in the same state, there are some groups of women who face a dramatic shortfall of marriage partners.
Economist Kerwin Charles has recently studied the plight of these women. Their problem is not merely that some who would want to marry won't be able to. It's that the available men—those not in prison—suddenly have more bargaining power. Goodbye to doing the dishes and paying the rent; hello to mistresses and wham, bam, thank you ma'am. The women whose potential partners have had their ranks thinned by prison are less likely to marry, and when they do marry, are likely to marry a man less educated than they are. Meanwhile, the remaining men, finding a surfeit of marriage partners, suddenly seem in no hurry to marry. And why would they?
The women's response makes sense: girl power. The women affected do everything to make the most of single life, including staying at school for longer and hunting for more paid work. The American prison system hasn't left them much choice.
When men are taken out of the marriage market by war or by prison, women suffer. The reverse is probably true, too: When women are taken from the marriage market, men suffer. In China, the policy of one-child families coupled with selective abortion of girls has produced "surplus" males. Such men are called "bare branches," and China could have 30 million of them by 2020. Perhaps polyandry—women with multiple husbands—would be the logical response to the situation in China. What will happen instead is that these lonely, wifeless men will end up sleeping with a relatively small number of women—prostitutes—with severe risks of sexually transmitted disease all around.
All this suggests that Kadyrov has a point about Chechnya. And perhaps the new HBO series Big Love will help to rehabilitate polygamy's reputation in the United States. Nevertheless, I am resolutely against the practice of allowing several women to marry one man. We men are downtrodden enough already.

Sunday, August 7, 2011

Suicide and Suicidal Behavior

Suicide
is the act of deliberately taking one's own life. Suicidal behavior is any deliberate action with potentially life-threatening consequences, such as taking a drug overdose or deliberately crashing a car.

why suicide?
Causes
Suicidal behaviors almost always occur in people with depression, bipolar disorder, schizophrenia, and alcohol dependence.
People who attempt suicide are often trying to get away from a life situation that seems impossible to deal with. Many who make a suicide attempt are seeking relief from:
  • Bad thoughts or feelings
  • Feeling ashamed, guilty, or like a burden to others
  • Feeling like a victim
  • Feelings of rejection, loss, or loneliness
Suicidal behaviors may be triggered by a situation or event that the person views as overwhelming, such as:
  • Aging (the elderly have the highest rate of suicide)
  • Death of a loved one
  • Dependence on alcohol or other drug
  • Emotional trauma
  • Serious physical illness
  • Unemployment or financial problems
Risk factors or triggers for suicide in adolescents include:
  • Access to firearms
  • Family member who committed suicide (almost always someone who shared a common mood disorder)
  • History of deliberate self-harm
  • History of neglect or abuse
  • Living in communities where there have been recent outbreaks of suicide in young people
  • Romantic breakup
Suicide attempts that do not result in death are much more common than completed suicides. Many of these suicide attempts are carried out in a way that makes rescue possible. These attempts often represent a desperate cry for help.
The method of suicide may be somewhat nonviolent, such as poisoning or overdose. Males, especially elderly men, are more likely to choose violent methods, such as shooting themselves. As a result, suicide attempts by males are more likely to be completed.
Relatives of people who seriously attempt or complete suicide often blame themselves or become extremely angry, seeing the attempt or act as selfish. However, when people are suicidal, they often mistakenly believe that they are doing their friends and relatives a favor by taking themselves out of the world. These irrational beliefs often drive their behavior.

WHY PULL A TRIGGER?
Symptoms
Most people who develop thoughts about suicide have already been diagnosed with depression, bipolar disorder, or some other psychiatric disorder. As a result, they may continue to have symptoms, even when they are receiving treatment.
Often, but not always, certain symptoms or behaviors may be present or getting worse before a suicide attempt:
  • Difficulty concentrating or thinking clearly
  • Giving away belongings, taking about going away or the need to "get one's affairs in order"
  • Sudden change in behavior, especially calmness after a period of anxiety
  • Loss of interest in activities that were previously enjoyable
  • Performing self-destructive behaviors, such as drinking alcohol, using illegal drugs, or cutting
  • Sudden difficulty in school or work performance
  • Talking about death or suicide, or even stating the desire to harm themselves
  • Talking about feeling hopeless or guilty
  • Unusual changes in sleep or eating habits
  • Withdrawal from friends or an unwillingness to go out anywhere

Treatment

A person may need emergency measures after attempting suicide. First aid, CPR, or mouth-to-mouth resuscitation may be needed.
Hospitalization is often needed to treat a suicide attempt and to prevent future attempts. Mental health intervention is one of the most important aspects of treatment.
After suicidal behavior is addressed, any underlying disorders should be treated (such as major depression, bipolar disorder, or alcohol dependence).
Adolescents may fail to seek help for suicidal thoughts, for all of the following reasons:
  • They believe nothing will help
  • They are reluctant to tell anyone they have problems
  • They think it is a sign of weakness to seek help
  • They do not know where to go for help

WHY TERMINATE YOUR OWN LIFE?

Prevention

Avoiding alcohol, narcotics, sedatives that have not been prescribed, and illegal drugs can help prevent suicide. These substances affect the brain and can make the depression worse over time.
In homes with adolescents:
  • All prescription medicines should be kept secure.
  • Do not keep alcohol in the home, or keep it locked up.
  • Securely lock all guns and keep the ammunition separate.
Many people who attempt suicide talk about it before making the attempt. Sometimes, simply talking to a sympathetic, nonjudgmental listener is enough to prevent the person from attempting suicide. For this reason suicide prevention centers have telephone "hotline" services. Again, do not ignore a suicide threat or attempted suicide.

LITTLE BLACK DRESSES

Whether you're heading off to a class reunion or walking the
decks of a cruise ship, the little black dress is a no-fail option.
 Look for details that flatter your shape (strapless to show off
great shoulders; waist details to optimize an hourglass shape)
 and pick a length anywhere from mini to right below the knee
 for the most versatile look.
jenifer chamila, simple dress like this, can make a woman
 look stunning and bootlylicious
 

Wednesday, August 3, 2011

MOVIE CRTICISM-My Precisely article to Zamaradi Mtetema

I respect Zamaradi Mtetema as a Renowned Tanzania Movie critic but, je zamaradi anafuata misingi ya ACADEMIC CRITICISM, anapochambua movie, sipendi kuwa  jugde, just read this article and you will come out with your own conclusion.

action, sio tu kuangalia camera, kuna mengi
zaidi kwa wasanii wetu
The word critic comes from Greek κριτικός (kritikós), "able to discern",[3] which is a Greek derivation from the word κριτής (krités), meaning a person who offers reasoned judgment or analysis, value judgment, interpretation, or observation.[4]


Academic criticism
It has been claimed[by whom?] that journalist film critics should only be known as film reviewers, and that true film critics are those who take an academic approach to films. This work is more often known as film theory or film studies. These film critics try to come to understand why film works, how it works, what it means, and what effects it has on people. Rather than write for mass-market publications their articles are published in scholarly journals that tend to be affiliated with university presses; or sometimes in up-market magazines.

Hapa najaribu kueleza nini maana ya word critic, sio kwenye film tu, ila kwenye kila jambo, iwe uandishi, siasa, na hata masuala mengine ya jamii.


in film we dont only need this, we just need more, sio mapenz
i tu, japo hawa ni kati ya waigizaji wenye kiwango cha juu wanahita management nzuri kabla ya kuandaa filamu


A critic is anyone who expresses a value judgement. Informally, criticism is a common aspect of all human expression and need not necessarily imply skilled or accurate expressions of judgement. Critical judgements, good or bad, may be positive (in praise of an object of attention), negative (in dispraise), or balanced (weighing a combination of factors both for and against). Since all criticism must be regarded as having a purpose, a critic may also be definable by his or her specific motivation. At its simplest, and for whatever reason, a critic may have either constructive or destructive intent.

JACQUELINE WOLPER
Formally, the word is applied to persons who are publicly accepted in a recognised capacity, such as professional employment, graduation from a course of study, etc., to give critical commentaries in one or any of a number of specific fields of public or private achievement or endeavour. Such domains most commonly include the arts, performance and public service (such as catering) but may extend more widely to pronouncements on moral character, group behaviour, or any activity involving repute in public life, including war, broadcasting, academia, politics, science, etc. Critical judgements in this sense must always entail some degree of subjectivity and are themselves subject to critical analysis.
Particularly in the domains of the arts and culture, where judgements can be at their most subjective, a formally accepted critic can play a powerful role as a public arbiter of taste or opinion and can occasionally play a more or less defining role in cultural history. Also, because formal criticism is necessarily selective, the role of the formal critic generally intersects with issues of censorship and the construction or denial of canonical reputation in cultures. But criticism need not merely be perceived as a matter of building up or destroying reputations. Good peer-group criticism is an important part of developing or maintaining excellent standards of achievement in any art or discipline, whether at the level of apprenticeship or ongoing practise.

monalisa, ni mmoja kati ya waigizaji wazoefu,
 hapa nchini Tanzania, tuwatumie
 kuleta mapinduzi ya filamu